Paris, december 1795

“I awake all filled with you. Your image and the intoxicating pleasures of last night, allow my senses no rest.
Sweet and matchless Josephine, how strangely you work upon my heart.
Are you angry with me? Are you unhappy? Are you upset?
My soul is broken with grief and my love for you forbids repose. But how can I rest any more, when I yield to the feeling that masters my inmost self, when I quaff from your lips and from your heart a scorching flame?
Yes! One night has taught me how far your portrait falls short of yourself!
You start at midday: in three hours I shall see you again.
Till then, a thousand kisses, mio dolce amor! but give me none back for they set my blood on fire”.

This was a love letter that Napoleon Bonaparte sent to his mistress Josephine before their wedding. This was just one of maybe thousands he wrote.

I personally doubt that he actually felt real love, because he always continued to take on mistresses. He also divorced Josephine because she didn’t give him any children – I don’t believe you do that if you really love some one, not even at this time. I mean, if it only were a matter of children, he could have kept her as a mistress.

The love letters was not quite the reason for his fame, but maybe it should have been? There is an art to write love letters too, more than being a brilliant military leader, won’t you say? I sure would have preferred being famous for love than for war. The old saying “make love not war” still has meaning.

I guess I’m saying: start to write more love letters!!!

The connection between Sweden and Napoleon is that Jean-Baptiste Bernadotte from France, brother-in-law with Napoleons brother, reigned as King Karl Johan XIV of Sweden 1818. The House of Bernadotte is the current Royal House of the Kingdom of Sweden.

France has always been considered as the country of romance, maybe this connection can explain why we Swedes are considered to be so open about love and sex…?

Ah, that must be the reason why I like french kissing so much ;-)

Mrs Lifecruisers true french kiss

Read more Love Letters of Napoleon
Wikipedia about The House of Bernadotte


“If you are not sure if you Love her, go out on a walk with her a couple of times and check that she is not asking some dumb questions”.

[ Patrick, 7 year ]

Oh, how I would have loved to read what he means with dumb questions…


Being a blogger you want to find interesting subjects that other bloggers find interesting. I have found in my not very scientific research that there seem to be a big interest in silicon boobs and erection pills. Why, I have no idea ;-) .
I think it has something to do with our nature and maybe some wish to be best in everything…

I have to investigate it further though, because I’m not sure if you need both of them for the same couple at the same time. I mean, if the woman have big boobs, maybe the man’s erection problems won’t appear – and the opposite, if the man have no problem with erection maybe he don’t need the big boobs, it’s just sufficient with a woman?

Ooops, I can see that questioning give me enough of opinions to drown in… *lol*

Personally I think it’s unnecessary to enlarge your breasts, because it’s mostly a try to increase your self-confidence, which can be done in other ways without taking all the serious risks involved with a surgery. There is some cases where there really is reasons for doing it, but far too many is doing it that don’t have to.

Besides that, I wonder if they really have thought about the problem they will have afterwards getting clothes fitting the big boobs? And they can’t even tell you exactly how the result is going to end up, you may get boobs you don’t even asked for. Mostly I don’t think it looks good either, not well-proportioned and very often they’re like two balls – too round on the upper side. But I’m not a man so maybe I have higher demands on what’s good looking?

Don’t take me wrong here, I love boobs, but beautiful naturally looking ones. I don’t want every one to have similar looking either. I think it’s like everything else – it’s very nice with some variation. Otherwise you soon get tired of seeing the same thing. Hm… maybe it going to change in the future and every one will do breast reductions instead? Why can’t we ever be satiesfied with what we got?

The same goes for the erection pills, too many is taking them that really shouldn’t have to. There are other ways to explore first. I guess it’s too easy to just take a pill and the problem seem to be solved. I would rather start to investigate why these problems occur to try to solve the real cause of it.

This really is a hot debate subject. I’ve seen it over and over again in the internet. I don’t know though if it really leads to something, to any insight in the matter at all. I think we are like we are and it would take gazillions of years to change that. There is too many that simply don’t want to change it. Plus the fact that it’s hard to stop a rolling snowball, every one wants to be the hottest or think they will be happier then.

“Today more money is spent on breast enlargements and erection pills than research about Alzheimers. That means that year 2030 there is going to be a lot of elderly women with very large breasts and equally many old men with a strong erection, but absolutely no one will remember what to do with it”.

[From our bible: "Men's best loo book"]

So, you see, that may be #1 reason why that is not needed in this house…

Secret whisper: #2 reason could be the fact that we already have big boobs and/or a strong erection, but no, we’re not going to show you if we have…